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Skip to :. This discussion is closed. Anonymous 1. Report Thread starter 5 years ago 1. I'm 20 year old girl close to finishing my first year at university I took a gap year and I'm still a virgin. This didn't bother me at all when I first came to university as sex wasn't something that was openly discussed between me and my friends at home.
But here it is the complete opposite and because I am so insecure about it I have opted to lie and tell people I'm not a virgin when asked directly, because I worry that people will make fun of me for it. It's not like I can't find anyone to have sex with me, as over the course of first year I've had many episodes with guys that could've led to a one night stand if I wanted it to, but I have opted to walk away. I'm a very shy and insecure person so the thought of somebody I'm not comfortable with seeing me naked terrifies me. I've always been very private, conservative and old-fashioned in terms of romantic relationships and intimacy so even if I wasn't a virgin, I would never choose to talk and boast about it openly like some people do.
Because of this, I would prefer to wait until I'm in a relationship to lose 19 year old virgin looking for first time virginity, because it would enable me to be comfortable. The thing is though, I don't see myself getting a boyfriend anytime soon so the other half of my brain is telling me to get it over with and have a one night stand.
It also doesn't help that I'm surrounded by lo of promiscuous and sexually active girls at university that are mostly younger than me, it just makes me even more insecure and foolish for not losing my virginity yet. I'm really conflicted about what to do about this because I don't think I can keep up this act up much longer that I'm not a virgin.
So, should I get it over with or wait until I'm in a relationship? But that could take years and I'm already Not what you're looking for? UB2 Representin Badges: 0. Report 5 years ago 2. Copulation only after graduation ini. Stevie Badges: 0. Report 5 years ago 3. No boyfriend is ever going to care if you're a virgin. Everyone knows that you could lose it at any time, so it's your choice and not something you aren't able to do!
If you feel pressure, sure, lose it on a one night stand, I did, but I know it would have been more special with someone I cared for deeply and cared for me! At the time, I was embarrassed for many men it's about lack of ability, not lack of desire but now that I'm older. I regret wasting it, I have a feeling it could have been so much more.
Male perspective. Anonymous 2. Report 5 years ago 4. No, I recommend you not to. Just because everyone is doing it doesn't mean you have to, and so what if it'll take so many years before you lose it. Just get on with your life. I feel like you would regret it if you had ONS so I recommend you to wait. Trust me it'll be worth it when you find the right guy. Zarek Badges: Report 5 years ago 5. What the problem with finding a relationship? Not everyone at uni is one night stand focussed. Report 5 years ago 6. What a sad world we live in. Posted from TSR Mobile. Report 5 years ago 7. Original post by babyshawte What a sad world we live in.
Report 5 years ago 8. Original post by Anonymous I'm 20 year old girl close to finishing my first year at university I took a gap year and I'm still a virgin. It's not like I can't find anyone to have sex with me, as over the course of first year I've had many episodes with guys that could've led to a one night stand if I wanted it tobut I have opted to walk away. Miss Maddie Badges: Report 5 years ago 9.
It doesn't matter. So many people are virgins and they lie about it to make themselves sound cool and look good. Report 5 years ago DanteTheDoorKnob Badges: 5. Original post by hezzlington Thats a bit high? Anonymous 3. I was a virgin till 19 and I was in uni and not in my first year. Honestly I don't see the big deal. But just remember, it's not really THAT big of a deal that you are a virgin.
How many guys in your friendship circle are in relationships and have been in relationships? How many actually pull people at a club? Not many. HighwayUnicorn Badges: Stop comparing yourselves to others. Take pride in yourself and the standards you have.19 year old virgin looking for first time
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